Today my 8 month old took her first steps! And kept going … falling …. going … falling … such a great milestone!
I’ve been spending most of my time in my “room.” Internally I call it kind of my prison… dungeon… now that it’s roomier, I am not AS miserable, but so lonely.
My husband was sick, and mid afternoon asked me to come watch a movie or something with him… I don’t know if he missed me or was just miserable and didn’t want to die alone lol but of course I agreed. Problem is that I can’t stop being who I am even if I shouldn’t.
I just don’t know how to address all of the issues that are now swirling in my head. 2 months ago I was happy and in love. Now I wonder if he even loves me anymore, what other things I don’t know about. It’s a horrible feeling, and we’ve been through this before.
A now ex friend has told me that he makes fun of my weight, has made passes at her, and has me fooled. Of course, I think he’s got THEM fooled if they think I’m not completely aware of who he is. I know better than anyone.
I’m tired of people turning on me when I don’t choose them over him. 10 years and 3 kids, and EVERYTHING we’ve been through, they can basically be sure I won’t choose them. I have ZERO friends. So any friend is new, and can’t hold even a candle in the wind to my marriage. I don’t care if I’m “stupid: because again, their opinion doesn’t really matter to me.
I’m tired of being sad, and lonely. I miss my real bed. I wish I had time to do my resume, because I keep getting interrupted by my daughter grabbing cords and squawking at me! I need a job… and FAST.
I wish I knew someone who would wish me luck.
I need to find a forum/message board that people talk on.
I have GOT to find people out there that I can just chat with in general.
Goals for tomorrow: resume & figuring out where actual PEOPLE are online
Watching MasterChef, biding my time until the baby sleeps, then hoping to go to sleep and escape this living hell for just a little while.